Men can be a little tricky to decipher. Yours might seem distant and disinterested, but in all actuality he’s ready for marriage, 2.5 kids, and a three bedroom house in the suburbs. Or maybe he’s hanging on your every word and acting like a complete gentlemen? Don’t shop for China patterns just yet because this doesn’t necessarily means he wants happily ever after. He may just be interested in a wham, bam, thank you ma’am. If your boyfriend is sending out signals, whether they are cryptic or crystal clear, here are a few ways to tell if he’s lost interest in your relationship.
Men by nature are not very complicated, and if he is flat out telling you it’s over, then it is probably over. Don’t lie to yourself. He’s not afraid that you are the "one" and the prospect of settling down is too frightening for him to handle. He is also not trying to test you. If he has decided to move on that pretty much means he already has, with someone else. Do yourself a favor and pack your bags too.
Is your man becoming more interested in trips to the bar with the guys than a romantic dinner for two? This is always a clear sign that the flame is flickering. Men will consistently choose whoopee over their friends, beer, football or stale bar pretzels. So go ahead and make reservations to your favorite French restaurant. If he cancels because of a playoff game at the local sports bar, you may want to call your best friend to help strengthen your own defensive line.
The invention of the telephone has given people all over the world the ability to stay connected with their loved ones, call for assistance in times of distress, or order a pizza at 3 o’clock in the morning. For women, the telephone has brought nothing but heartache and anguish. Most men do not realize this, but the fairer sex places an amazing amount of emphasis on how much this little device is utilized by her significant other. Men who’ve lost interest will still call. Sometimes out of guilt, but he also might have a different motivation. Walk away if he has lost the ability to use the phone during the daylight hours and seems to only call you late at night, inebriated, and with some very dishonorable intentions. He’s all about lust, not love, and you deserve better.
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Rocky relationships, and the inevitable breakups that follow, are never easy, but do not waste your time on a guy who isn’t willing to treat you with the love and respect you deserve. If you have noticed any of these signs, confront your boyfriend, and demand an honest answer. Never change yourself to suit his needs. Move on, and search for someone who will fall in love with you for who you are now at this moment. He is out there, and I know it seems as if the jerks of the world are taking over, but there are still a few good ones left.
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